It was a bed time. PJS, soft music, and our same routine of lights out. Day time when everything slows down, and it is just me and my daughter, connecting and talking she retreats. She always saves deep ideas for bedtime as it buys her more awake time.
But this night was different. His small face was scattered and burdened. He opened his mouth, and came out, “Mother told me the truth about you.
I was stunned. I did not know how to react. And before I could stomach a reaction, he suddenly followed, “Mother, what is abortion, and why Dad says that I need to like it?”
And with those words, I was taken.
- My pregnancy was unplanned, not unwanted
- Male feminist – who are they?
- There is nothing new under the sun
- Indoctrination – Turn children into radical workers
- They broke our women’s bond
- Concluding idea
My pregnancy was unplanned, not unwanted
Sure, my pregnancy was unplanned, but my daughter was not unwanted. Like most women with unplanned pregnancies, I knew that pregnancy was not easy. But I really loved my lover. So I felt that when I was pregnant, she would be surprised but will be happy. But it is not what I got. When I told him a breaking news, he proceeded to attach to the whole night of drinking.
After being drunk, he climbed on my face and I miscarried my child. I do not know how I expressed courage, but I told him unconditionally that I would do abortion. I was pregnant before and chose adoption for my son. If I could go through it, there is no way in hell, I will finish this child. For my surprise, he retreated and did not threaten me again with abortion. And I am ashamed to say this, but I felt lucky. I had friends who were forced to abortion by my colleagues, but thankfully it was not my story.
However, our relationship did not live up to the test of time. And when our daughter was one, we separated.
Male feminist – who are they?
I never knew a word for this at first, but I quickly came to know that my daughter’s father and the second “creative” types I thought myself as a “male feminist”. It was a complete vibe. Burney Sanders PIN, ancient record collection, urged to carry forward a narrow type social activity. Whether or now, all men are a defined feature of feminists that are often parody, and this is their attempt to embarrass all women to embrace abortion.
I will never forget that night that I was out with a group – some friends, nothing. At this time, I was a single mother who was doing two things and putting herself through college. During the evening, someone asked for a woman’s opinion on a subject, and a “male feminist” on the table said quickly, “Well, I will speak for Emily because I am more than a woman, depending on what she believes.” I thought, “Are they multiplying?”
It was just another clear feeling that this mentality – this male feminism – was much wider than what I felt.
Male feminists prevent their wagons for radical feminist ideology that women should embrace abortion on demand without border.
Unexpectedly, these people prevent their wagon to radical feminist ideology that women should embrace abortion on demand without border. He has completely ignored that most of the abortion in the US is either forced, fierce or incompatible with women’s values. But, according to him, if you are not cheerleed it, you are “not a woman.” It is clearly clear how male feminists are most benefited from this extreme ideology. The man becomes pregnant. The woman gets abortion. The man finds another woman, and repeats the cycle – without any consequences.
Male feminists believe that all women should think in a way and work so that you can consider a woman worth any value. Isn’t that irony? In a swoop, they are denying the value for both a woman and her child. This is not only arrogant, but ignorant. And instead of looking at solutions for better maternal financial and emotional help, they will push us to abortion drugs or surgery.
There is nothing new under the sun
It is so striking for me that history repeats itself. And this is definitely true here. In the history of our nation, when you find stories of abortion, you always find “male feminist”, who push it as a cure for women’s “problems”, while coincidentally they are absent. This is the history of abortion in America: to use powerful men with an agenda to use women or to pursue abortion.
The first recorded abortion in the US was in 1652. A married captain Mitchell forced his servant girl Susan Warren to abortion after completing her. He needed to cover the problem of his rape and infidelity.
For the 21st century, you can hear similar stories of women like Elizabeth, whose lover pushed them into abortion. As he said, “His burden became my burden, and I needed to fix it for his benefit, his future.”
And see the recent braking news of Brittany Spears. For over two decades, he bored the trauma of an unwanted abortion, which he did at the behest of his then lover Justin Timberlake. She says that this decision still persecutes it.
Just because these women did not want to achieve abortion work or probably did not reduce them to a woman.
Indoctrination – Turn children into radical workers
And it takes me to the heart of this whole conversation for me, my daughter.
In that important night when my daughter faced me about her femininity. I saw a seismic change in his eyes the way he saw me. For her, I was not a woman who proudly gave her life – I was a cultural paria who was no longer enough woman.
It was not much later that I learned that his father was putting him through the ideology boot camp during his visits. He would grill him, whom he supported as the presidential candidate, what news he heard, what was the right social issues to support, how can he be a good colleague/worker. She was in primary school.
No one can rob you out of being a woman out of being a woman or culturally.
They broke our women’s bond
At the end of the day, I did not get hurt because they encouraged our daughter to question my femininity. I believe who I am. I was a woman before I come out of the womb. This is an irreversible feature that I think or will never change on thinking.
My heart broke that my little girl no longer saw me as anyone who shared our female bond. Even his father could not give us that. But over time and with age, we are capable of restoring and repairing the chipping that was done. We have a “girl talk walk”, and she shares her heart with me. She talks about her dreams of having a mother and wife one day.
And I hold my breath because I want him to live that dream, fully supported and without shame.
Concluding idea
No one can rob you out of being a woman out of being a woman or culturally. Before you breathed your first breath, you became as a woman.
Many people do not realize that most of the abortion in the US are unwanted. Let us work together to support and serve women with all unplanned pregnancies, weeping them to the resources that they are crying to allow radical feminist men and women to bend with lies. Together, we can lift each other up instead of teasing each other and devaluating each other. Both for us and for future generations.
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